I have an old Ipad . I charged it up and it says Ipad disabled connect to Itunes. I have a Mac and cannot see where I can find I tunes much less connect. Any advice on how to get this old disabled Ipad working?

On a Mac that is running Catalina, Big Sur or Monterey you use Finder for that instead of iTunes. See the instructions in If you forgot your iPad passcode - Apple Support

Also see the following about iTunes on newer Macs: What happened to iTunes? - Apple Support

If the Mac is running Catalina or newer, restore the iPad in the Finder. Otherwise, open iTunes from the Applications folder or the Dock.

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