on recovery assistant how can I connect to wifi, if icon is missing?

Hey Vivalaest17,

It appears that you're having a problem using Recovery over the Internet. You're not seeing a Wi-Fi symbol, and we're glad to provide assistance.

About macOS Recovery on Intel-based Mac computers - Apple Support -- A bit lower in this section, there are other options available when you're unable to connect with Wi-Fi during macOS Recovery:

If you see the globe and warning symbol, try these solutions:

Make sure that your Mac can connect to the internet. If you're not prompted to choose a Wi-Fi network during startup, choose a network from the Wi-Fi menu , if available.

Press Command-R at startup to try using the built-in Recovery system instead of internet Recovery.

Connect to the internet using Ethernet instead of Wi-Fi, or vice versa.

Connect to the internet from a different Wi-Fi or Ethernet network. Your network configuration might not allow the internet access that macOS Recovery needs.

Try again later, because the issue might be temporary.

Start up from another disk or volume, if available, or use a bootable installer to reinstall macOS.

Feel free to get back to us with any questions or problems you may have.

All the best.