Notifications are silenced syncing bug!

iOS 16.0 iPhone 13 Pro Max

macOS 12.6 MacBook Pro 13 inches 2018 model

I know my best friend is NOT lying. He claims the notifications are silenced is off. On my iPhone iOS 16.0 it does NOT say that now. However after updating to macOS 12.6 it says in the messages app notifications are silenced! I do NOT have mine on either!

Any suggestions? Anyone else having this issue?