"You Sent this Today" Follow-Up

I'm not sure whether this has anything to do with updating to iOS 16 or not, but I hadn't seen this until after that update.


A couple times now, I've sent a message on my iPhone, and then a few days later, I get something in my Inbox, showing that message, and saying that I sent it "today" a few minutes earlier. So, that implies that that Email was sitting in limbo somewhere for several days. Instead of a date, it shows "FOLLOW UP."


Both times I've poked around in my Sent box to see if the message was sent when I originally wrote the Email (i.e., really was only finally sent today -- several days after I wrote the Email. In both cases, I could not find the Email there for the date I wrote and sent it.


Anybody have any idea what that might be about? I googled it and didn't find anything relevant...

iPhone 12 Pro Max

Posted on Oct 6, 2022 7:22 PM

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Posted on Dec 26, 2022 12:58 PM

The “Followup” email function being touted by some as an AI enhancement to email is ridiculous and annoying. The algorithm will pick up on any sentence in your sent message that you ended with a ? And assume you require an answer and a couple of days later put your sent message into your inbox whether or not you as a living human being needed an answer or not!! AND if you did not need an answer and delete it from your inbox - it also deletes your copy from the sent messages box!!! So I followed your lead and went to settings/mail and turned that function off, went back to trash and moved my message back to the sent folder (I may need it later) and now nothing has or will have that silly annoying followup icon on it again. Thanks for the solution.

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Dec 26, 2022 12:58 PM in response to mr88cet

The “Followup” email function being touted by some as an AI enhancement to email is ridiculous and annoying. The algorithm will pick up on any sentence in your sent message that you ended with a ? And assume you require an answer and a couple of days later put your sent message into your inbox whether or not you as a living human being needed an answer or not!! AND if you did not need an answer and delete it from your inbox - it also deletes your copy from the sent messages box!!! So I followed your lead and went to settings/mail and turned that function off, went back to trash and moved my message back to the sent folder (I may need it later) and now nothing has or will have that silly annoying followup icon on it again. Thanks for the solution.

Nov 9, 2022 2:46 PM in response to mr88cet

Hi mr88cet,

My recipient did not receive the email the day it was sent. They received it the day my Apple Mail app decided to send it.. which was a few weeks later. I had to send an apology email explaining the oddity and that the issue discussed in the email had already been resolved. It was a little embarrassing. :(


I have unchecked the Enable Massage Follow Up Suggestions option under General in Settings. I hope this ends that aggravating feature of the new MacOS Mail.


Thanks,

Sue

Dec 17, 2022 1:40 PM in response to mr88cet

I had the same problem, but I could not find the same layout under Settings that iMorph85 said to look for. Instead, I found "Enable message follow-up suggestions" under "General," which I then unchecked. That should solve the problem. But my question is, why does my Mail-Settings look so different from the one in iMorph85's answer above?

Jan 23, 2023 5:46 AM in response to mr88cet

I've had a similar experience. Following this suggestion, while checking the email settings I noticed I had Cellular Data turned off for email. I wonder if that had something to do with my outgoing email sitting in limbo? However, I have been connected to recognized wi-fi for quite awhile -- at least overnight and then this morning I got the Follow Up message and notification that my original message was just sent.


I just turned off "Follow Up" and will see if this happens again.


Ken

Oct 6, 2022 11:04 PM in response to mr88cet

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Oct 29, 2022 4:43 AM in response to sueperfly

Sue,


Can your recipient verify whether s/he in fact did not receive it until the later date? I’ve asked a couple of my recipients if they can tell, and their response has been “I don’t remember,” or they don’t understand my question (it’s a weird question, so I don’t blame them!).


When I look in my own “Sent” I usually in fact do not see it on the date thought I sent it. However, the most recent time, I did in fact see it at the earlier date (i.e., appearing that it was not delayed), and it showed the “followup” thingie rather than the date.

Dec 10, 2022 9:10 AM in response to SkyMunkey

That’s curious… Makes you wonder what the Follow-Up settings are for…


Recently, when one of those came up, the recipient was able to confirm that they had for-sure received the message in question days ago, when in fact I sent it. So I suspect that these messages are not typically being delayed (maybe a few are).


I sent Apple feedback that these messages are confusing.

Oct 7, 2022 7:02 PM in response to SravanKrA

OK, so here's what I'm seeing (photos attached):The message you see in the inbox titled "Clall me by phone" there I wrote and, as far as I can tell, sent several days earlier. I didn't include myself on the distribution list, so conceptually, it shouldn't land in my inbox. Instead of a date, as you can see, it has a "Follow up" menu.


When I view that message, I see this:

In this picture it says "yesterday at 8:18" as you can see. However, when it appeared in my inbox out of the blue, that time as just a few minutes before it appeared.


Fuzzy to me:

  • Did it ever get sent when I originally wrote it several days earlier?
  • Why is it showing up in my inbox several days later, especially since I didn't include myself in the distribution list?
  • What's the point of the "follow up" options?

Oct 28, 2022 6:39 PM in response to mr88cet

That just happened to me as well. I sent this email about two weeks ago. The issue was resolved. There was not reason for the email sent to be delayed.

Why was the email delayed? And why is it in my InBox and what does “follow up” mean?

It’s obviously some odd feature of iOS 16, but why is there no reference to this weird feature and a way to stop it from happening again?


Any insight would be appreciated.

Thanks,

Sue


Nov 10, 2022 6:02 AM in response to sueperfly

That’s interesting — the follow-ups option in Mac Mail. However, it sounds like that just prevents it from sending a follow-indication, and the Emailing delay could still exist, potentially having no indication of it.


FWIW, one of my recipients, may have reported having received it earlier. I say “may have” in that he couldn’t remember when he received it, but says he remembers being in his car at the time. Since I asked him immediately upon receiving the “followup” indication, it couldn’t have been just then received.

Nov 16, 2022 3:02 AM in response to mr88cet

So, this is good, thanks. Somebody else found the corresponding settings in Mac Mail.


This addresses the “followup” part, but there’s also another, even-more-haunting concern here: the “you sent this today” on messages we thought we sent days earlier: are these messages really not getting sent for several days, and if so, why? Several interesting replies to that, but maybe not so definitive yet.


Also, a more-subtle question: How closely-related are these “followup” suggestions to these delayed messages? Are there perhaps even more messages being delayed — only some of the those delayed message getting followup hints?


To me at least, the followup suggestions seem … odd, but what alarms me is the possibility/appearance that message delivery is being delayed by several days.


Either way though, thanks for the observations regarding the followups!

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