Continuity Camera only works as webcam when connected with cable
I'm using an M2 MacBook Air with Ventura 13.0 and an iPhone 14pro with iOS 16.1.
I can only use my iPhone as a webcam if it's plugged into my laptop. I get an error that I can only partially read, since it's truncated. It says:
"Unable to Connect Continuity Camera"
"Sarah's macbook air is currently using..."
"To use Continuity Camera, disconnect AirPlay first."
If I connect my phone to my laptop with a usbC to Lightning cable, then video apps seem to use the phone camera's video properly, but as soon as I disconnect the cable, the video freezes and I have to start over.
I'm not sure what needs to be disconnected and from where. Can anyone help? I'd really hoped to use this feature for work...Thank you in advance for any assistance.
MacBook Air, macOS 13.0