Complicated Apple ID Question
I have a serious dilemma I want to potentially solve or at least have a definitive answer to. Long story short when I was a kid I had a iPad 2 and a different Apple account than I do now.(2012-2015) Someone changed my passcode and my iPad was locked from trying too many times. I had to confirm my apple id to recover the iPad but I couldn't access my account because the security questions were made by my father who isn't around anymore and I couldn't receive an email because my account was locked. I had tons of photos and videos from my childhood that are on that account I am dying to recover. I know the Apple ID and Password, as well as the birthday, but I am unable to answer the security questions or receive an email. Is there any solution to this? Thanks for reading I really appreciate it.
MacBook Pro 13″, macOS 12.6