Maybe this helps: I could not delete a bunch of files via the trashbin. I received a message on the screen that the files were in use...
There was n't any application active. So this was a strange errormessage.
I found a solution and that was via the commandline with the Terminal application
Open a Terminal window by clicking on the Terminal.app in the Utilities folder.
You will now nee a blank screen with some (2) lines appearing on the screen
The Lower line is a prompt formed by
youraccountname@nameofyourmacbook ~ %
Type after this prompt
rm -R
With a space after the R!
Then select in the Finder the files you want to delete.
And drag them to the Terminal window and drop them after the Command "rm -R " you typed there.
The Terminal app does automatically fills in the proper names and paths of the files.
After that you to place the cursor on the end of the line. Can be very long!
Just press the 'cursor to the right' button (looks like >) and then hit the return button.
MacOS will delete all the files you have selected.
It is not crazy to tell you: "Be carefull" with this.