Hello cjrnest,
Welcome to Apple Support Communities. We understand you have some issues with Handoff between your devices. Let's go through a few steps together to get it working as expected. You'll want to make sure all your devices meet the system requirements: System requirements for Continuity on Mac, iPhone, iPad, and Apple Watch - Apple Support
Then, we'll work from this steps in this article: Use Handoff to continue tasks on your other devices - Apple Support
- For your iPad and iPhone, go to Settings > [your name]. Make sure each device is signed in to iCloud with the same Apple ID.
- Go to Settings > Bluetooth to confirm it is enabled.
- Go to Settings > Wi-Fi to confirm it's enabled.
- Go to Settings > General > AirPlay & Handoff, then turn on Handoff.
Reply back with any concerns or questions.
Best regards.