Hello Jasongo173,
Thank you for reaching out to Apple Support Communities.
Your driving focus may be turning on automatically. These steps should help:
"Turn on the Driving Focus automatically
- Go to Settings > Focus, then tap Driving.
- Tap While Driving under Turn on Automatically, then select one of these options:
- Automatically: Driving will be activated based on detected motion.
- When Connected to Car Bluetooth: Driving will be activated when your iPhone is connected to car Bluetooth devices.
- Manually: Driving can be activated manually from Control Center.
- Activate With CarPlay: Driving will be activated automatically when your iPhone is connected to CarPlay."
More details can be found here: Use the Driving Focus on your iPhone to concentrate on the road
If the issue persists, can you provide a few more details? Are you connecting to the cars Bluetooth or CarPlay as a passenger? Also, which iPhone and iOS version are you currently using?
Cheers!