Payment method verification code sent to wrong number

Thank you for getting back to us, midnightposter!

If you go back and check, is it still showing Family Sharing as disabled? In order to disband a family group, if there was a child under 13 (in most countries), they would need to be transferred to another family group.

If that is not the case, try signing completely out of your Apple ID, then signing back in to make certain the changes to your account updated. Then try again to see if the issue is resolved.

If the issue remains, please reach out to Apple Support directly so they can look into your account for you.

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Hi midnightposter,

Thanks for contacting Apple Support Communities!

We understand that you're attempting to update the trusted phone number associated with your Apple ID to get a verification code.

You can sign in to the Apple ID website with your Apple ID to update your phone numbers associated with your account as outlined here: Manage and use your Apple ID

"Manage your Apple ID

Because your Apple ID is used across all your devices and services, it's important to keep your account information up to date. Simply sign in to appleid.apple.com2 at any time to manage your account:

• Update trusted phone numbers and devices that you're currently signed in to with your Apple ID.
• Change your password to help maintain the security of your account.
• Update your Apple ID email address3 to make sure it's an address that you use frequently.
• Add additional email addresses to help people find and communicate with you on Apple services like FaceTime1, iMessage, and Find My.
• Update the birth date associated with your Apple ID.
• Change your Apple ID country or region.

You can also learn how to manage your payment information on your iPhone, iPad, iPod touch, or Mac."

You can also get a verification code from a trusted device if you'd prefer: Get a verification code and sign in with two-factor authentication

We hope this helps.

Cheers!