Hello ApplesAndPears8,
If you're receiving an error that the phone number is invalid, make sure the Apple ID country/region is set correctly to match the phone number you're attempting to add. This would apply to the family organizer, and the child account you're setting up. The country/region for both will need to match. Change your Apple ID country or region provides steps to check the Apple ID country or region.
- "Open the Music app or iTunes.
- In the menu bar at the top of the screen or the top of the iTunes window, click Account, then click View My Account or Account Settings.
- Sign in with your Apple ID.
- On the Account Information page, click Change Country or Region."
If you need additional help after giving those steps a try, contact Apple Support.
Take care!