cant find containers folder? has this changed with Ventura?

To avoid having to use the Go menu or pasting the user Library folder into a search to get there, click anywhere on the desktop so Finder is the foreground app shown at the top left. Press Command+Shift+H to open your user account home folder. With that folder in the foreground, press Command+J. Turn on the check box to Show Library Folder. Close the View Options panel.

From now on when you go to your user account folder, the Library folder will always be visible. Within that is where you'll find the folders dialbrain mentioned: