The red lightning bolt is on and I cannot get the watch to turn off I tried both ways with the side button and Digital Crown
The red lightning bolt was not allowing me to move or see anything on the phone
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Red lightening bolt means the Watch battery is completely drained. Until you can get it to charge don't try anything else.
The article If your Apple Watch won't charge or it won't turn on - Apple Support
is the best resource for this situation. If you've completed that troubleshooting and the issue is still not resolved, use the link in the article to Contact Support.