Hello Chrisnehring,
Let's use the steps below to get our iPhone updated to the latest version of iOS:
1. Back up your device using iCloud or your computer.
2. Plug your device into power and connect to the internet with Wi-Fi.
3. Go to Settings > General, then tap Software Update.
4. If you see more than one software update option available, choose the one that you want to install.
5. Tap Install Now. If you see Download and Install instead, tap it to download the update, enter your passcode, then tap Install Now. If you don't know your passcode, learn what to do.
You can also find those steps in this resource: Update your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support Updating should help to further isolate a software conflict.
Should that still continue, do you sync your music with any other devices? If so, are they exhibiting the same behavior?
Let us know, and we'll keep moving forward from there.