Hi Gena_D. Thank you for taking the time to respond. What you typed I am already aware of and had previously been using the feature on all my contacts because that is how they came up under "add related", mother being the 1st option then I could go in and change it as well as create custom ones. Which I had been doing all along. BUT, one day that just stopped happening. All of a sudden I only had 3 options (manager, assistant, spouse). I DID DISCOVER HOW TO CORRECT THE DEFAULT (settings-contacts-default account - then changed my option from Outlook to iCloud. Then when creating a NEW Contact, I now again get the full list of "add related" options, including the ones I custom created. HOWEVER, for any "contacts" I added while I was having the issue - I can't figure out how to correct it - except by delete the contact AND then add them again (since changing my contacts-default account to iCloud), with the full "add related" list now available to me.