can't stop photos on mac from syncing to iphone
Running ventura on MacBook pro and 16.2 on iPhone. I recently got a new 14 pro max. I had been using an old 7. I knew I couldn't use iTunes for back up anymore, and I go through the finder for back up now. However, now when I plug usb from phone to mac, the backup software is no longer allowing me to choose not to sync photos, nor to sync only certain albums. Thousands of photos loaded from the mac to the phone, and I can't get them off, as they lack the trash can symbol.
I've tried numerous methods. Most recently I made an empty folder on the photos app on the mac, and tried to select that folder as the folder to sync the phone to. Is anyone familiar with this problem that's new to me? If so, what do you recommend to get the photos off my phone, and to stop the sync when I plug in to back up? Thanks.
iPhone 14 Pro Max