How to turn off read receipts for all contacts

Read receipts are turned off on my phone 13 mini, up to date at version 16.3, but they are still being shown to people I text. I have tried turning receipts on and off, and resetting my phone. I have also tried deleting the contact & message convo, then restarting my phone and messaging them again and it still shows them my read receipts.

Any ideas how to fix this?

I'm very uncomfortable with this since I wouldn't have even known if my contact hadn't brought it up wondering why I had them on.


[Re-Titled by Moderator]

iPhone 13 Mini

Posted on Feb 7, 2023 7:20 AM

Reply
Question marked as Top-ranking reply

Posted on Feb 8, 2023 1:34 PM

Good Afternoon Not_Much,


Welcome to the Apple Support Communities!


It sounds like you are having issues with Read Receipts in the Messages app, and we'd like to help.


You've already done some great troubleshooting, and turning off the switch in Settings > Messages > Send Read Receipts should affect all messages.


However, you do have the ability to change that setting for certain individuals. So, we'd like to ask you to check this setting for the individual(s) who state they can see the Read Receipt. To do this:


Open the Messages app

  1. Tap on the conversation with this individual
  2. Tap their icon at the top of the display. This will open their contact card.
  3. Make Send Read Receipts is toggled off (the switch is white) for this individual as well.
  4. Tap Done.


If you're seeing that the feature is disabled for these contacts as well, Contact Apple Support so they can look into this with you further.


Take care.


Similar questions

59 replies

Apr 28, 2023 8:54 PM in response to Not_Much

I am having the same problem and it is causing an unnecessary problem for my circle. I have and want my read receipts off for a reason and I do not consent to it being “turned on”, especially without my knowledge. I have updated my phone to fix any bugs, restarted my phone, deleted and re-added contacts. I will not be upgrading to another iPhone after this. I like my privacy and what I decide to do at my own time and pace and this feels like an invasion of it. My phone ratted me out and it’s about to be in the trash with the rest of the rats.

Jun 2, 2023 7:25 PM in response to rincenacara

It's infuriating really! I still see that my messages have been read and I feel invaded by it... On top of that... It ****** me off that we all see when we're responding in real time to the text. This should be my decision not a feature of apple and the fact that more people don't complain about this simple privacy issue is wild to me!

Jan 3, 2024 6:39 AM in response to DanAcoustic

DanAcoustic wrote:

THIS IS AN ABSOLUTE VIOLATION OF PRIVACY !!! I’ve had this bug for maybe 2 + years. This is a BASIC, settings control. THIS NEEDS TO BE A TOP PRIORITY FOR APPLE. TOP TOP TOP, nothing more important. I’ve changed the settings, rebooted…. FIX this issue APPLE with the next release !!!!!!

This is a user-to-user support forum. Apple doesn't read here for feedback, suggestions or requests for help. Yelling at us, your fellow users is uncalled for.


You can let Apple know your thoughts here:


Product Feedback - Apple

May 30, 2024 10:59 AM in response to Eves567

Eves567 wrote:

Dear apple support,

Why hasn’t this issue been fixed?

My read receipts are turned off in settings and for all individual contacts but still showing read receipts for certain contacts.

This is awful!! Please fix this issue!! Thank you!!

Apple Support doesn't participate in these forums. If you need help directly from Apple, use the Support link at the bottom right of every page of these forums.


If you want to leave feedback for Apple, use the Feedback page:


Product Feedback - Apple

Jul 8, 2023 2:12 PM in response to Not_Much

Same here and it’s extremely frustrating! I have always made sure to keep read receipts off but today I found out that those are being sent anyway! I followed the steps provided here but the problem remains. Read receipts are turned off (as they’ve always been) in both settings and my contacts (only checked the ones I text most). Read receipts were turned on for one contact despite the fact that I’ve never turned it on before! Turned it off but still problem remains. Seriously, please fix this now!!

This thread has been closed by the system or the community team. You may vote for any posts you find helpful, or search the Community for additional answers.

How to turn off read receipts for all contacts

Welcome to Apple Support Community
A forum where Apple customers help each other with their products. Get started with your Apple Account.