Hi, thanks everyone for all the info.
All help received has led me to this on Amazon.
'OWC - 64GB OWC Memory Upgrade Kit - 4 x 16GB PC10600 DDR3 ECC-R 1333MHz DIMMs for Mac Pro 2009-2012 'Nehalem' & 'Westmere' models'
This is from Amazon USA, (Amazon.com) I am in UK but I can buy import.
It appears to be what I am after to upgrade to 64GB using all four slots 4x16GB but....
It is not PC3L as per my original question. It is PC3
However it is ECC-R rather than just ECC. I am not really sure what the '-R' is, if anyone can enlighten me?
From what I can see it just means that I can only use these sticks and they will not mix with other brands.
The listing on Amazon is a bit confusing as it states that it is compatible with my 'Mac Pro 6-Core (Mid 2010-2012) (July, 2010 / June 2012) Model ID: MacPro5,1 (3.33GHz)' in one sentence but lower down in the description it further states 'This kit is compatible with dual processor (8-core & 12-core) Mac Pro models ONLY. While single processor (Quad and 6-core) Mac Pro models do have 4 memory slots available, This kit is not compatible due to an OS system limitation'
So all still very confused as to will it work or not?