mail going to junk when it shouldn't
I bcc myself on sent mail so I have a record that it got sent. I set up some rules to send things to junk mail but it is now getting my bcc messages and all the messages from my wife in addition to stuff that really is junk. I have set exemptions for senders in my contact list but they still go to junk. How do I get the junk to the junk folder without getting the good stuff sent there too?
MacBook Pro 16″, macOS 13.2