Can’t find Ask to Buy

Hi donnab322,

To clarify, are you having trouble sending an Ask to Buy request or are not receiving a request from a different device ?

Also, were you able to look through the tips in the article that was used to create this post?

• If Ask to Buy isn't working - Apple Support

If so, where specifically are you getting stuck? Additional specific details of what you've done or steps you're taking or what is missing will go a long way towards helping us assist you.

Cheers!

Hey donnab322,

It looks like you're receiving the messages about Apple Card purchases. A couple of things: are you seeing a record of a purchase or do you specifically have to approve a purchase? Also, is your husband listed as "participant" or "co-owner" of this Apple Card? Please see this Apple resource on Apple Card for more info:

Set up Apple Card Family and add a co-owner and participants - Apple Support

Let us know if you have any additional questions!

Best regards.