My WiFi (and everything else) worked just perfectly after the 13.3.1 update, and I don't see a great mass of problem reports here which I would expect if there was a buggy release. That makes me think the few victims in this thread got hit with either a corrupted download (unlikely because it would not verify correctly), or something specific to their individual settings and/or WiFi router. Note that although the problem described may sound like the same issuer, it could be 2 different problems causing the same outcome for the 2 different users.
My first thoughts are to simplify things as much as possible in an attempt to locate the cause of failure;
> Try to determine the cause of failure - at least to which stage is falling over. For example, is the WPA password getting accepted or rejected?
> Reboot (power cycle) the router and everything connected to it. Including any remote WiFi extenders. If possible during testing, shut down any possible conflicting devices like printers
> Try renaming the WiFi (SSID) just in case they did something unexpected like creating a new Reserved Word within MacOS.
> Check WiFi settings for anything which might have got mangled in the update, including the TCP/IP v4 network addressing (Auto, manual, correct subnet mask etc).
> Check the WiFi security scheme in use, looking for a mismatch between the router and client devices. Something like defaulting the newly upgraded client device to WPA3 when the router is on WPA2 is not unheard-of.
> For the purpose of testing only, try resetting the WiFi to be an Open system (Not WPA, etc) just to see if you can connect.
> Check for firmware updates available on the router.
It might be worth comparing notes about the make and model of WiFi router or other access points being used, just in case there is something unexpected there.
If the router and MacBook both have a regular (wired) Ethernet ports it might be worth testing a wired connection.