Login option doesn’t show

Give this a try: boot into Safe Mode according to How to use safe mode on your Mac and test to see if the problem persists. Reboot normally and test again.

NOTE 1: Safe Mode boot can take up to 3 - 5 minutes as it's doing the following; 

• Verifies your startup disk and attempts to repair directory issues, if needed

• Loads only required kernel extensions (prevents 3rd party kernel/extensions from loading)

• Prevents Startup Items and Login Items from opening automatically

• Disables user-installed fonts 

• Deletes font caches, kernel cache, and other system cache files

NOTE 2: if you have a wireless keyboard with rechargeable batteries connect it with its charging cable before booting into Safe Mode. This makes it act as a wired keyboard as will insure a successful boot into Safe Mode.

I'm not certain, but it sounds like you are describing this setting.

go into System Settings > Lock Screen and change "Login window shows" from "Name and password" to "List of users"

Additionally, the latest version of Ventura is 13.3.1.

Yo

you've replied to yourself, but since you marked my answer as "best answer" I'm guessing the thank you was for me.

you're very welcome. :)

you're welcome. and thanks for the compliment! :)

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