Change address on my account

Have a look at this support article for the various places where you may have an email with Apple:

About your Apple ID email addresses - Apple Support

A likely candidate for what you are observing:

Add an additional email address

1. Sign in to appleid.apple.com.
2. Select Personal Information.
3. Choose Reachable At, then select the Add button  .
4. Enter your additional email address. Make sure that you're not already using it as an Apple ID. 
5. We'll send a verification to that address. Didn't get the email?
6. Enter the verification code and select Continue.

I don't think Apple has my home address anywhere. Mind you, I don't have a billing address entered so maybe that is to what you are referring?

This support article includes how to change a billing address as part of editing a payment method for your account -->

Add a payment method to your Apple ID - Apple Support

On an iPhone/iPad:

1. Open the Settings app.

2. Tap your name.

3. Tap Payment & Shipping. You might be asked to sign in with your Apple ID.

4. To update the address for a payment method, tap the payment method, then edit your information. Tapping the method should reveal details for that method including the billing address. You might need to enter the security code that's printed on your credit or debit card. If you see Apple Pay after the last 4 digits of the card number, go to the Wallet app to edit the card information.

5. Edit the method then tap Done