HDCP blacking out streaming video services on dual desktop displays

Hey guys, this is a pretty big issue that doesn't seem to have a fix.

I have a MacBook Pro (13-inch, M1, 2020) running macOS Ventura version 13.3.1 (a). I've purchased 8 different dongle/hubs with duel HDMI and/or Display Port connections (I'll list them below) and at least as many HDMI/Display Port cables that are all HDCP compliant.

The problem. Streaming services black out video because of HDCP. So far as I can tell, it's because almost any dongle/hub/adapter you purchase uses software that requires screen recording in order to send video information to dual monitors.

IF I could use both of my thunderports, one for each display, I don't think this would be a problem. But I can't. If I plug one dongle/hub/adapter/Thunderbolt to HDMI/DP cable into one USB-C Thunderbolt port, that display will stream video to a single monitor.

IF I try to add another dongle/hub/adapter to my second Thunderbolt port, it will not send a signal to a second display.

IF I try to use a dual monitor dongle/hub/adapter on any of my Thunderbolt ports, then I cannot stream video.

Simplified.

-Single desktop display, not problem. HDMI/DP work great.

-Trying to use each thunderbolt port for a display (2 monitors) will not work.

-Using any dual monitor adapter on a single Thunderport - blacked out screen when streaming video (audio and subtitles still work).

I even purchased an extra 4K Apple TV (64g wifi only) to use as an AirPlay second display - no dice. No streaming video, and honestly the picture quality degraded quit a bit.

I'm considering buying a mac mini today to see if it will work. I'm an Apple guy for sure, I have over 20 apple products for my family alone, but this is a turn off. If Apple supported MST (Multi-Stream Transport) this would probably work as well, but they don't. So Microsoft get's the win here.

What I've used.

1. Silkland USB C to DisplayPort 1.4 Cable; It will run one display on one thunderbolt port but not two on two thunderbolt ports.
2. Plugable USB 3.0 Dual 4K Display Docking Station model: UD-6950H; best video quality but using a screen recording software so, again, no streaming video from any streaming video provider.
3. Selore Model: SEUC0507: Two displays in mirror mode only, no extended display because it doesn't have a screen recording software.
4. Anycast 4K m100; this is supposed to be knockoff airplay adapter. No dice.
5. HRpart Wireless HDMI adapter; again, a knockoff airplay. Didn't work either.
6. j5create JCA365 usb-c to dual HDMI mult-moniotr adapter; use stream-recording software so no streaming video.
7. Belkin USB C to HDMI Adapter; sinlgle display works great. One of these on each thunderbolt port doesn't work.
8. Hyperdrive NCT Hub for USB-c Macbook pro; supports one HDMI display, tried to use one of the above dongles on a USB-C port for dual display and notta.
9. Vava UC017 USB-C hub; works for a single display, will not work for two displays.
10. Apple TV 4K 64g wifi only; already talked about this. Video quality isn't great, can't stream, and if I try to play audio from my macbook pro to my paired HomePod mini's it kicks the airplay off and just goes back to AppleTV.

Note: I've tried this on two different MacBook Pro (same model as mentioned above). My wife and I have the same setup. We've tried Samsung monitors and Dell monitors. As of the writing of this post, we each have two Dell S3222DGM 32" curved 4K gaming monitors. All drivers and software have been updated to their most current version as of 13 May 2023.