How can I decrease the OS update duration to be below 10h?

With my Mac Studio M1 Max it is always like this.

• Apple suggests an update of the operation system.
• Download works fine, it installs something then asks for a restart
• The computer does not boot properly
  • Unlike windows it does not roll back with the intention to restore the system as it was
  • Booting always ends in the recovery frontend (or however it is called in English):
  • It says something like "The recovery system has been started as there was an error during installation"
  • In this state:
    • Restoring from the time machine (Option 1) does not work: It claims that the OS is not installed properly
    • Installing the OS (Option 2) does not work, as it will end with exacly the same error message: Just a waste of time
  • So the procedure is
    • I have to delete the container on the hdd
    • Then I have to freshly install Montery (with the image the Mac Studio comes with)
    • Then I have to freshly install Ventura on top
    • Then I have to restore my system from time machine with the help of the migration assistant (which take a long time)
    • The I have to fix various things, e.g. RME Soundcard Setup, Dropbox, ...
    • ... ie it takes more than 10 hours.

This happended to me twice

• First time was a minor update of Monterey, I lost some data due to an outdated timemachine backup
  • It was my fault to trust the minor update procedure without proper backup
• Second time was just now: The Update from Monterey to Ventura 13.3.1 (a) (22E772610a)

Questions

• Any ideas what's so special about my system, that it always fails to update properly, see system spec below?
• Am I the only one with this issue?
• Into which files should try to take a look prior to wiping the internal ssd, to obtain information helping Apple to make updates executable on my system?

System-Spec

• Modellname: Mac Studio
• Modell-Identifizierung: Mac13,1
• Chip: Apple M1 Max
• Gesamtanzahl der Kerne: 10 (8 Leistung und 2 Effizienz)
• Speicher: 64 GB
• Systemfirmwareversion: 8422.100.650
• OS-Ladeprogrammversion: 8422.100.650
• Soundcard: RME Fireface UCX with the setting displayed in [1]
• 4 tray HDD USB enclosure
• I use various symlinks from the enclosed SSD to HDD connected via USB, which is always restored nicely
• I used to have hdd encryption switched on when the problem occured for the first time
• I used to have hdd encryption switched off when the problem occured for the second time.

[1] RME Soundcard Settings require