How to set effective Screen Time limits on iOS?

What’s wrong with screen time? I use screen time to manage my kids usage of their iPhone/iPad and this feature does not work as expected. It allow them to continue watch beyond the limits. They can ignore the limits…

are you also having the same issue with iOS 16.4.5 and any other version before that?




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Posted on May 20, 2023 7:01 AM

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Posted on Jun 27, 2023 6:04 AM

There are 2 other ways Screen Time limits can be ignored.

  1. If allowed, they can delete an app and then redownload from the App Store to reset the limit. The solution is to not all App downloads or deletions. Go to Content & Privacy Restrictions > iTunes & App Store Purchases. Don't allow "Installing Apps" or "Deleting Apps".
  2. If allowed, then can change the time zone to give them more time. The solution is to first go to Settings > General > Data & Time and make sure it is set to "Set Automatically", then go back into Screen Time and Contents & Privacy Restrictions > Location Services > System Services and make sure "Setting Time Zone" is toggled off. Now tap the Back button and go to the top of the "Locations Services" page and choose "Don't Allow Changes"


Another thing kids are doing is getting your Screen Time Passcode by setting the screen to start recording, then having you put in your PassCode. If you see a flashing red icon in the upper left, then the screen is being recorded. Of course this can be disable in Screen Time too by going to Content & Privacy Restrictions > Content Restrictions and shut off "Screen Recording".


There is also the case of kids resetting their devices to Factory Settings. Currently the best solution to this is to change their Apple ID password and not give it to them. With Find My turned on they would have to enter the password when reset and you would know what they did.


This will not solve all Screen Time problems and there is still more work that needs done.

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Aug 15, 2023 4:08 AM in response to pdmc123

The screentime limits and website blocking lists are completely useless. Kids can simply ignore limit or add website to the allowed list at a click of a button. Why this would even be included as an option is beyond me (unless they simply want kids to be addicted to their devices...)


Yes I have tried all the 'solutions'. Signed in and out of all devices hundreds of times. Wasted hours of my life. Looking at the comments it has been a problem for years.


Completely pathetic from Apple.

Mar 28, 2024 12:25 PM in response to azakmies271

gwilym227 is incorrect. I am a child and my parents use the screen time limit option. "Ignore limit" can be prevented by changing the settings on your phone with your screen time password. Search on google how to do it. Adding apps to the allowed list is restricted on the child's device because of the screen time limit you have to type in before changing any of the screen time settings. Either you children habe figured out this password, or you put in your settings for them to have access to this. As a child, I have also tried everything to get past the limit. I have even changed the time and date to when there will be screen time, but somehow my parents have disabled this.


I hope these solutions help.


Your best regards, a child with a screen time limit.

Mar 5, 2024 1:31 PM in response to azakmies271

Totally agree about everything said about the screen time UI, pretty shameful that something this important is so bad and disconnected from the reality of parenting kids with devices (and social pressures and hardly any self-control).


Like, why is there not a blacklist option? It's pretty obvious that there are certain apps that a parent might want to block completely. No asking to download, no nothing.


Or here's an other one, instead of "always allowed" how about "only allowed"?


There's also a missed opportunity. Allow the App store to be hidden from a kids device, but offer curated collections of apps that would actually be useful/educational/fun/creative/developmentally suitable for different age groups and installable only by parents. Would be much easier to agree on particular sets of apps among parents/school than the "everyone for themselves" approach going on now.

Mar 29, 2024 1:34 AM in response to azakmies271

This thread is from summer 2023 and it is now March 2024, and I and still having issues with my son’s screen time. I have tried everything. I have reset, blocked all apps and made sure block at end of limit is on etc. etc. My son has admitted that he can click “ignore the limit all day” in the first warning and then it works. If he clicks ignore for any other length of time in the first warning (e.g 30 minutes) then the next warning doesn’t give him any options and he has to ask for time. So he must click “ignore the limit all day” for the bypass to work. Then he can play as much as he wants. I am so frustrated. This is going on for so long. I am seriously done with Apple phones for kids

Jul 22, 2023 10:40 AM in response to JiuJitsuMom24Boys

For a company as Technical as Apple, parental controls that are intuitive should not be a problem.


The fact that they make it so complex for parents makes me think they have a different agenda. I am a computer scientist, and I know how easy it should be for Apple to provide a simple, intuitive interface for the parents.


As a parent, I am now regretting getting Apple devices for everyone in the family.

Aug 6, 2024 1:38 AM in response to azakmies271

I was still experiencing the same problem with the possibility of my son to “ignore the limit”. Today it seems to be solved with the new ios update on both phones.

But I really believe that it’s madness for parents to help your child to grow safely without being so exposed so you have to add restrictions on restrictions.

My advise for parents is to avoid as much as possible to buy your child a mobile phone until they are 14 years old, when their brains are developed enough to start to be more responsable.

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