"hey" before Siri

I’m from a generation before electronics so learning all these new gadgets are a challenge. But if I may make a suggestion. I grew up saying “hey” s are for horses and rude to call an elder by the title “hey”. And I’m a foreigner. Hey is rude even in my cutlture and I find it hard to say before Siri. Also, I’m not the only one but others have also complained about how rude Siri is. Trying to make these beings in the great wide world of AI more human with their rudeness isn’t citing it for me. She knows less than a simple Bot trying to hack me