Ipods
Why can’t I set up my iPad 3 to my iPhone?
iPhone 14 Pro Max, iOS 16
Without more information from you, I have no idea.
You should be able to update your iPad via Wi-Fi.
See Writing an effective Apple Support Commun… - Apple Community.
By the way, you might find it easier to keep track of your discussion if you stick to one thread, rather than multiple threads.