Apple Music three family members share, one of whose recommendations show up in my librabry

I have had the Apple Music family plan for several years. I share with my wife and my two children. Everyone’s has accepted and everyone is set up the same. My wife and son listen to music on their devices and none of the music shows in my recently played. My daughter on the other hand all of her music shows in my history and recently played. I have checked all the settings and nothing deviates. This is very frustrating. How can it be fixed?