Apple Watch Competiotion with different goals is silly

I often compete with a friend of mine on our Apple Watches. It's fun, but what always bothers me is the fact that my higher goal at standing hours and training minutes are a huge disadvantage for me.

My friend only has 8 hours, so every hour gives her roughly 12-13 point. I only receive 7-8 points, since my goal is 13 standing hours per day.

Same with training minutes.

Is there any possibility to set one of our goals as a benchmark to make it more comparable?

I don't want do change my goals again and again just to get a change to win the competition.