iOS error message: Unable to Check for Update
I have an iPhone 11 Pro with iOS version 16.5.1 (c) on it. I have a red notification ballon on the Settings icon that says there's an update available. When I try to update it, I repeatedly get the following message: "Unable to Check for Update, An error occurred while checking for a software update. Cancel or Try Again". One of the solutions I found online was to plug the phone into my Mac and use a Finder window to update it. I tried to update it up on my iMac running Mac Ventura 13.4.1 (c), but I got a message saying that: "There are purchased items on the iPhone that have not been transferred to you Mac. You should transfer these items to your Mac before updating this phone." I have no idea what these items are, nor how to transfer them to the Mac even if I did. I called my son, who lives in OR (I'm in IA), and he has the same problem (with the phone part). Should I throw caution to the wind and just update the phone without doing anything about the non-transferred items? I had a problem with "lost" music a while ago, so I'm concerned about the warning. Can anyone help? Thanks.
iPhone 11 Pro