i think my wife has hacked my phone

I had a business dinner a few weeks ago, and a few days later, my wife and I were arguing about something, and she dropped a fact that could only have come from a conversation during that dinner, and there is zero chance she could have heard it from someone else. Is there a way she could have hacked my phone? I have changed my password several times over the past few months and have never shared it with her.

iPhone 14 Pro, iOS 16

Posted on Aug 15, 2023 9:42 AM

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Posted on Aug 15, 2023 10:11 AM

Unless you have jailbroken your phone or your wife has had access to your phone while it was unlocked for more than a few minutes, I agree with Raicya, your phone wasn't hacked.


The more likely scenario is that your wife made an educated guess and dropped it into the fight to see how you reacted. If you took the bait, then she has more information. This is a form of what is called "social engineering".


If you are concerned that your wife is hacking your phone to get information from you that you don't want her to know, your issue is not a technological one, it's a serious relationship issue. Time for couples therapy or a good divorce attorney.

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Aug 15, 2023 10:11 AM in response to rick_hoff

Unless you have jailbroken your phone or your wife has had access to your phone while it was unlocked for more than a few minutes, I agree with Raicya, your phone wasn't hacked.


The more likely scenario is that your wife made an educated guess and dropped it into the fight to see how you reacted. If you took the bait, then she has more information. This is a form of what is called "social engineering".


If you are concerned that your wife is hacking your phone to get information from you that you don't want her to know, your issue is not a technological one, it's a serious relationship issue. Time for couples therapy or a good divorce attorney.

Aug 15, 2023 10:01 AM in response to rick_hoff

Is there a way she could have hacked my phone?

No, if you haven't jailbroken your iPhone, it's not possible.


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If you think your Apple ID has been compromised

If you think your Apple ID has been compromised - Apple Support


Recognize and avoid phishing messages, phony support calls, and other scams

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See who has access to your device or accounts

See who has access to your iPhone or iPad – Apple Support (UK)

 

Delete suspicious content from your devices

Delete suspicious content from your devices – Apple Support (UK)


Check your Apple ID device list to see where you're signed in

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  • if you see devices that don't belong to you, delete from your account.

 

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Manage and use your Apple ID -> Manage and use your Apple ID – Apple Support (UK)


(if you haven't already done this) Two-factor authentication for Apple ID -> Two-factor authentication for Apple ID - Apple Support


Change your Apple ID password -> Change your Apple ID password - Apple Support

  • Create a strong password for your Apple ID, It is best if your password consists of eight or more characters and include upper and lowercase letters, and at least one number. You can also add extra characters and punctuation marks to make your password even stronger. 
  • Never provide your password, passcode, security questions, verification codes, recovery key or any other account security details to anyone else. Apple will never ask you for this information.

 

Then see this Apple article: What to do after you change your Apple ID or password

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