ipad wont connect to laptop

If you iPad is not recognised when connected to your compatible computer, try using a different USB port; if your computer has both USB-C and USB Type-A ports, try using the USB Type-A port of the computer.

If difficulties persist, this support page may help with troubleshooting:

If your computer doesn't recognize your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support

You are not limited to using a Mac to restore your iPad; a Windows 10 or Windows 11 PC (with iTunes for Windows installed) is just as usable:

Download and use iTunes for Windows – Apple Support

Update to the latest version of iTunes – Apple Support

What is happening when you're trying to connect your iPad to your laptop?