I have a Apple Music subscription via Family Sharing and all my music disappeared, when I go to settings the sync library option isn't there

So my apple music was working fine the day before but today the person paying for the subscription forgot to pay for it on time. Causing the apple music to remove all my music from my mobile app, I reminded the recipient of the problem and they paid for it. I got the email saying that someone in my apple family shared a apple music subscription, so I go to my app and still the same thing. I restarted my phone and the app numerous times and still nothing. The option in my settings app to sync my apple music library is not there at all. When I login on a desktop all my music and everything is there to be found. I'm not on the latest IOS (V16.5.1) and will try and update a more convenient time but I'm asking if there is anything else I could try to restore my Apple music app