Where do I find the home folder on my Mac mini

you can go into Finder > Settings in the "sidebar" tab, and put a checkmark in your Home Folder's name.

and then it will appear in the sidebar of the finder window.

and I went one step further. I used Finder Settings > General and set "New Finder windows show:" to my home folder.

and now my finder opens with my home folder.

Choose Home from the Finder's Go menu.

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