Hello normanfromredding, I assume you are trying to setup Bluetooth link between your iPhone and your Honda car. See if these steps help with the car on and in Park.
- Make sure Bluetooth is activated and discoverable on your iPhone.
- On your Honda multimedia screen press the Home Button at the top left.
- Press "Phone", then Press "Yes" to confirm. You will then be prompted to add a new device, tap "Yes". Select your mobile device from the multimedia screen.
- On your iPhone Select from Settings > Bluetooth > "HandsFreeLink" from the Bluetooth menu. The two will now begin pairing. Once finished is should show Connected on your iPhone.
- Your iPhone and Honda multimedia system are now connected via Bluetooth and HandsFreeLink. To my knowledge there is no "Pin" number you need to verify with. If you are try to do something else let me know and maybe I can help.