Hello MarkDad32,
We understand that after updating your iPhone 13 you are experiencing an issue with having to repair your device with your Ford Escape. The following steps may be able to assist you with correcting this behavior:
- Be sure you're running the latest version of iOS 17. This is to ensure that your device has all the latest fixes.
(Secure your data with a backup before proceeding): Update your iPhone or iPad
2. Restart your iPhone and your car.
3. Make sure that your stereo is using the latest firmware from the car manufacturer. You can check your car's manual for more details.
If you continue to experience the same behavior, we suggest that you connect with Apple directly concerning this issue. They can assist you further: Get Support
Take care.