HomePod Mini won’t play my playlists

This is what happened leading up to the situation, for no apparent reason our house disappeared on the Apple HomeKit app on my wife’s iPhone and iPad while everything was fine on mine. I contacted Apple Support who really tried to solve the problem, we tried removing my wife details in the home settings and then invite her to join the home again, we did this and even though it showed her details as approved she still could not access any HomeKit accessories.

They suggested to setup our Homekit app again from the beginning and invite her to join again, we did this now she has access to all the accessories on the HomeKit but now NONE of our 3 HomePod mini’s will play MY Apple Music Playlists but they WILL play my wife’s playlists, we have the larger HomePod in the conservatory this works fine for both of us.

I’ve tried re-setting the HomePod Mini’s numerous times, signed out of my Apple account and signed back in again, accept personal requests are selected on the HomePod’s, nothing seems to work, I don’t understand how I can play my Apple Music playlists on the HomePod in one room and not listen on the other 3 HomePod’s

I’ve never had any main issues with Apple products before but this is really annoying

Any ideas how to solve this problem, I don’t really want to setup the HomeKit App again, it didn’t work last time 😡