That function does not work on SSDs. That's why you can't find it in Disk Utility.
For a Mac’s boot drive, Peter Cohen explains the process nicely. “How to Securely Erase a Mac SSD.” In brief:
1) Back up any data you want to keep on your boot drive. It’s going to be nuked.
2) If you haven’t already, go to System Preferences > Security & Privacy > FileVault and enable it. Write down the password on paper and establish a safe place for this password. Be patient. This process can take a long time, hours, and there is no progress bar.
3) When done, restart your Mac in Recovery mode (CMD-R) as described at the beginning of this article.
4) Launch Disk Utility. Select the disk (boot SSD). Select Unlock “volume name” from the File menu. Enter that saved password. Now erase the disk normally, using the standard erase option.
5) This deletes the FileVault key. The SSD now contains only unreadable, encrypted garbage.
6) You may wish to install some version of macOS now to place the machine in the out-of-the-box mode. Do CMD-Q when the Mac reboots and the set up process first starts.
I've done this, and step 2 did not take hours. Not even on a 1 TB drive. It was done in all of a couple of minutes.