Purchased Apple TV 3rd gen without remote (wiped)
Hi, I recently purchased a 3rd generation apple TV box on facebook marketplace, but it didn't have a remote with it. Long story short, I ended up connecting it to my computer and wiping/updating the device, in hopes that having it fully updated would help it find my iPhone 12 to use as the remote. However, whenever I open up the remote app in the control center, it just spins as it looks for a device to connect to. How can I set up the TV without a remote?
Thank you for all your help!
Edit: For what it's worth, the TV is as up to date as possible, and my iPhone is on iOS 12. I also have an up-to-date macbook pro if that would be useful in this situation