How can I prevent duplicate contacts from appearing on Apple devices?
At this point -- on both my iPhone XS and mid 2015 MacBook Pro 15-inch Retina -- I have between 3 and 7 copies of the exact same contact's information within the app. All copies show in both my iPhone and in my MacBook Pro app. In iCloud, however, there is just one copy as there'd normally be. In fact, I used to only have one copy of all my contacts until somewhere around 2018 when I upgraded the OS to Mojave. Or maybe it was earlier on; either way, at this point I have so many copies of the same contact it's just asinine. Tried to merge them all with each other but when I do the merge, nothing changes. If I try to manually delete the 2, 3, 4, or 5 extra copies or whatnot, the Contacts app will delete them, and then freeze in a "thinking" state for 5-6 minutes. Then when it's done, and I try to click on the next contact, it has to "think" some more. That lasts another 3-5 minutes. Attempting to edit the contacts in the Contacts app is such a galactic waste of time I have been putting it off for about 6+ years at this point. Now I have 3,657 contacts in both my MacBook Pro and iPhone when in reality I only know about 920 people. This is absolutely ridiculous. With 16 GB of RAM and all the power of this machine running OS 12.7 Monterey you'd think a super basic, plain old app like Contacts would be an easy to use, landmark function of my computer. But NO. Why is that? Care to explain?
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MacBook Pro 15″, macOS 12.7