Not getting message notifications on my iPhone 13 pro

Have you enabled Scheduled Summary? Enable Immediate Delivery

Settings > Notifications > [Select the App that you are having trouble receiving immediate notifications]

See the pic below for a few examples. Please select immediate delivery.

Go to Settings and tap Notifications. Select an app under Notification Style. Under Alerts, choose the alert style that you want. If you turn on Allow Notifications, choose when you want the notifications delivered — immediately or in the scheduled notification summary.

Use notifications on your iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch

Change notification settings on iPhone

1. Go to Settings > Notifications.
2. To schedule a notifications summary, tap Scheduled Summary, then turn on Scheduled Summary. ... 
3. To choose when you want most notification previews to appear, tap Show Previews, select an option—Always, When Unlocked, or Never—then tap.

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Change notification settings on iPhone - Apple Support (IN)

You can allow access to Notification Center on the Lock Screen. Go to Settings > Face ID & Passcode (on an iPhone with Face ID) or Touch ID & Passcode (on other iPhone models). Enter your passcode. Scroll down and turn on Notification Center (below Allow Access When Locked).

View and respond to notifications on iPhone - Apple Support (IN)

Here are some additional tips for troubleshooting notification problems on your iPhone:

• Make sure that your iPhone is not in silent mode.
• Check the notification settings for individual apps to make sure that they are turned on.
• Make sure that your iPhone is connected to a Wi-Fi network or cellular data network.
• Restart your iPhone.
• Update your iPhone to the latest version of iOS.
• Contact Apple support for help.

Turn off all focus (DND, Driving, Work, Sleep, Personal, Any other). Open the Control center and see if this helps.

And then turn back the only Focus that you need.

If your family is still receiving texts with the message "notification silenced" when messaging you, it could be due to a few different settings or configurations on your iPhone or iPad. Here are some troubleshooting steps you can follow to resolve the issue:

Check Individual Contact Settings:

• Open the Messages app on your iPhone.
• Find a conversation with one of your family members.
• Tap the contact name at the top of the conversation to open the contact details.
• Check if "Hide Alerts" or "Emergency Bypass" is enabled for that contact. If so, toggle it off.

Check Mute Conversation:

• In the Messages app, swipe left on the conversation with your family member.
• If "Hide Alerts" or "Mute" is enabled, tap on it to unmute the conversation.
• Hide Alerts watch the GIF below

SMS and iMessage notifications settings are not different. However, if the recipient has enabled Hide Alerts for a specific message thread then there won't be any sound irrespective of DND

For Hide Alerts please see the pic 1 below. Follow Pic 2 for two scenarios; DND+Hide Alert and Only DND

Pic 1 (Hide Alerts)

Pic 2 (Two Scenarios) 1. DND + Hide Alert, 2. Only DND

And is that when you are not receiving notifications on your iPhone? If yes, this is by design and how Apple designed notifications to work. If while wearing Apple Watch, the screen is off on your Apple Watch, notifications will ONLY be delivered to your Apple Watch, not your iPhone. If the screen is on on your iPhone, notifications will be delivered to your iPhone.

Read this link about notifications on Apple Watch and note the very first statement at the top that Notifications will be delivered to your Apple Watch or your iPhone, but not to both --> Notifications on your Apple Watch - Apple Support

If you are wearing your Apple Watch and your iPhone screen is not on, your iPhone is NOT supposed to get notifications. That's how Apple designed it to work. You get notifications on your iPhone or your Apple Watch, BUT NOT BOTH.

Naenae_3 wrote:

every since the first iOS 17 update my phone has been messing up especially my contacts. It started sending them to my house alarm company but then once it did that the phone wouldn’t ring , it’s crazy but I was able to receive text notifications until the last 2 updates

You didn't answer my question. Do you not get the notifications when you are wearing your Apple Watch? If the answer is yes, this is by design as the link I provided about Notifications on Apple Watch explains.

See the Support button at the bottom of this page to reach out to Apple for help. Or, if you are in the US, you can call Apple Support at: 800-MY-APPLE or you can schedule an appointment at your closest Apple Store Genius Bar for help in-person.

Do you wear Apple Watch, by chance?

I doubt many are calling about this specific issue. I have no issues with notifications on our iPhones with iOS 17.1.2 at all. They're working exactly as they should be working.