Can someone access my iCloud or change my Apple ID if they are the main account holder

I received a few texts the other day on another phone number that someone was trying to get a code to access my iCloud my Apple ID. I’ve also received a text from a number stored in my iCloud from someone that does not have my current phone number. I’m in the middle of a court case and I’m highly concerned that this individual has access to my private information because of this account connected to this phone connected to their account. They are the account holder and have me locked out. I do have a new phone, but I have a lot of information on this iPhoneand he has it active because he has a plan with it but I still have the phone

iPhone SE, iOS 17

Posted on Dec 9, 2023 9:10 PM

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Posted on Dec 9, 2023 9:25 PM

If the Apple ID account is shared, then it is connected and shared. Shared Apple IDs are shared. Everything including remote device resets are entirely possible. Apple recommends against sharing an Apple ID, too.


If there is sharing here, you will need your own Apple ID.


If sharing an Apple ID, here are a couple of threads covering how to disentangle data from a shared Apple ID:


Apple ID - Apple Community


Stop sharing Apple ID with wife - Apple Community


Disentangling a shared Apple ID is work, unfortunately.


In general…


Robust and unique passwords everywhere.


Enable two-factor authentication, if not already enabled:

Two-factor authentication for Apple ID - Apple Support


Read the personal safety guide (PDF at the bottom):

Personal Safety User Guide - Apple Support


Run at least the Safety Check tool mentioned in the guide, and review the other checklists as appropriate.

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Dec 9, 2023 9:25 PM in response to Jack5257

If the Apple ID account is shared, then it is connected and shared. Shared Apple IDs are shared. Everything including remote device resets are entirely possible. Apple recommends against sharing an Apple ID, too.


If there is sharing here, you will need your own Apple ID.


If sharing an Apple ID, here are a couple of threads covering how to disentangle data from a shared Apple ID:


Apple ID - Apple Community


Stop sharing Apple ID with wife - Apple Community


Disentangling a shared Apple ID is work, unfortunately.


In general…


Robust and unique passwords everywhere.


Enable two-factor authentication, if not already enabled:

Two-factor authentication for Apple ID - Apple Support


Read the personal safety guide (PDF at the bottom):

Personal Safety User Guide - Apple Support


Run at least the Safety Check tool mentioned in the guide, and review the other checklists as appropriate.

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