Daughter can’t make purchases, signed into Family Sharing

My daughter and I are in a Family Sharing group (I’m the organiser). When she tries to make an in-app purchase or sign-up to the Arcade 3-month trial, she has asked for permission, I’ve approved the requests, but we can’t get any further. Everything appears to be as needed in her Apple ID settings and I have verified my payment details on her device. It keeps asking her to “continue signing-in”. We enter passwords, etc and then it tells us we have an invalid address or we need to verify her Apple ID. I don’t know how to do this.

iPhone 4s, iOS 9

Posted on Dec 28, 2023 9:54 PM

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Posted on Dec 29, 2023 10:01 AM

If Ask to Buy isn't working, read the suggestions in this document --> If Ask to Buy isn't working - Apple Support


Make sure notifications haven't been disabled. This article discusses notifications --> Use notifications on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support


If an app or feature on your device is not working, not appearing, or is restricted (grayed out), it may have been disabled using Screen Time, or by an IT administrator if you are using a device owned by an employer or educational institution.

- Read this support article If your Apple ID or other options are greyed out in Settings —> If your Apple ID is greyed out in Settings - Apple Support

Tap Settings > Screen Time > Content & Privacy > scroll to Allow Changes.

- If the device is managed (Settings > General > VPN & Device Management), contact the IT department that is doing the managing.


If an app is not appearing, see: Use parental controls on your child's iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch - Apple Support "If you turn off an app or feature, the app or feature won't be deleted, it's just temporarily hidden from your Home Screen."


If you are using Family Sharing, make sure this isn't a Sharing related issue such as happened in this case: Change Payment Method - Apple Community

E.g., If you are part of a family group but not the Organizer, you cannot add your own payment method.


If you see a message saying to try again later, see if it's a system issue: Apple - Support - System Status


Here's a list of standard things to try when a feature is not working:


Make sure the software is up to date on all devices involved.

Update macOS on Mac - Apple Support

Update your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support


Sometimes it helps to have the devices involved take a fresh look at settings:

● If this is a service, try disabling it and turning it back on.

● Try signing out of accounts and back in again.

Sign out of iCloud on your iPhone, iPad, Apple TV, or Mac - Apple Support

Sign in with your Apple ID - Apple Support

If you have more than one Apple ID, don't forget you may be signed into other accounts too for special services such as iMessage and Media & Purchases.

● Restarting is a simple step that can resolve many unexpected behaviors.

iPhone: https://support.apple.com/HT201559 then choose your model.

iPad: https://support.apple.com/HT210631

Mac: https://support.apple.com/guide/mac-help/ways-to-start-up-your-mac-mh26785/mac


Try using other equipment if possible. I have seen several cases where somebody tried to do something on one item of equipment and failed, but then tried on a different item of equipment and succeeded.


Sometimes it can take some time for changes to propagate through the system and waiting may help ( e.g., https://discussions.apple.com/thread/254632281?answerId=258650468022#258650468022 ). If a problem persists, particularly over several days, try contacting Apple for assistance:


Click here --> https://support.apple.com/choose-country-region Select your country, then a product. If you don't see one that handles your issue then keep experimenting with selections until you reach one that gets you a chat session or a telephone call and get the representative to redirect you.


or:


"See a list of Apple phone numbers around the world."

Click here --> https://support.apple.com/HT201232




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Dec 29, 2023 10:01 AM in response to Familee_123

If Ask to Buy isn't working, read the suggestions in this document --> If Ask to Buy isn't working - Apple Support


Make sure notifications haven't been disabled. This article discusses notifications --> Use notifications on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support


If an app or feature on your device is not working, not appearing, or is restricted (grayed out), it may have been disabled using Screen Time, or by an IT administrator if you are using a device owned by an employer or educational institution.

- Read this support article If your Apple ID or other options are greyed out in Settings —> If your Apple ID is greyed out in Settings - Apple Support

Tap Settings > Screen Time > Content & Privacy > scroll to Allow Changes.

- If the device is managed (Settings > General > VPN & Device Management), contact the IT department that is doing the managing.


If an app is not appearing, see: Use parental controls on your child's iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch - Apple Support "If you turn off an app or feature, the app or feature won't be deleted, it's just temporarily hidden from your Home Screen."


If you are using Family Sharing, make sure this isn't a Sharing related issue such as happened in this case: Change Payment Method - Apple Community

E.g., If you are part of a family group but not the Organizer, you cannot add your own payment method.


If you see a message saying to try again later, see if it's a system issue: Apple - Support - System Status


Here's a list of standard things to try when a feature is not working:


Make sure the software is up to date on all devices involved.

Update macOS on Mac - Apple Support

Update your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support


Sometimes it helps to have the devices involved take a fresh look at settings:

● If this is a service, try disabling it and turning it back on.

● Try signing out of accounts and back in again.

Sign out of iCloud on your iPhone, iPad, Apple TV, or Mac - Apple Support

Sign in with your Apple ID - Apple Support

If you have more than one Apple ID, don't forget you may be signed into other accounts too for special services such as iMessage and Media & Purchases.

● Restarting is a simple step that can resolve many unexpected behaviors.

iPhone: https://support.apple.com/HT201559 then choose your model.

iPad: https://support.apple.com/HT210631

Mac: https://support.apple.com/guide/mac-help/ways-to-start-up-your-mac-mh26785/mac


Try using other equipment if possible. I have seen several cases where somebody tried to do something on one item of equipment and failed, but then tried on a different item of equipment and succeeded.


Sometimes it can take some time for changes to propagate through the system and waiting may help ( e.g., https://discussions.apple.com/thread/254632281?answerId=258650468022#258650468022 ). If a problem persists, particularly over several days, try contacting Apple for assistance:


Click here --> https://support.apple.com/choose-country-region Select your country, then a product. If you don't see one that handles your issue then keep experimenting with selections until you reach one that gets you a chat session or a telephone call and get the representative to redirect you.


or:


"See a list of Apple phone numbers around the world."

Click here --> https://support.apple.com/HT201232




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