Strange websites approved on my internet services

P-n.io shows up under every device I have connected to my internet and under the approved site, which I personally did not approve. The other is outbrainimg.com and my phone has absolutely been compromised. I have multiple pictures for explanations. These are people who I at one pointnir another have let in my home, they have gotten my router information and have taken over my security cameras as well. So not only is my apple phone useless when it comes to calling apple for help. They can reroute my phone calls at any time. I also have zero home security. My pet is tortured while I’m at work, my things stolen from my home, food, Christmas gifts, money, you name it they take it and I have no proof because the proof is deleted from my compromised iPhone 11. They can even cancel orders I have placed on eBay and have recently done just that. Last night I discovered they have made a key to my car and now take my debit card while I sleep.