I am part of the way there. Using Mojave on a 2017 iMac, when I go to https://askapple.apple.com/Chat/ , I see the following:

If I click "Allow" I see "A Specialist will be with you shortly".
The problem is that I don't then see the setting in Safari Websites preferences, though in Sonoma, on a different computer, I see:

Safari Websites does not save the choice in Catalina either, the furthest you can update, though it also gives "A Specialist will be with you shortly." None of these seem to save to Safari Websites preferences -> Microphone (Blank for me on all OS versions). At the bottom of this on the right, you see "When visiting other websites - Ask". I am wary of suggesting toggling it to Allow for the time spent on the Apple site, but it might be an idea. In general, I would be inclined to enable only temporarily microphone access to any website. I will keep thinking and report back, but there are quite a few sources of advice on your Mac update, and I am sure it will move you to a different world.