How to turn off Siri suggesting Check In on iPhone

About 2-3 weeks ago, out of the blue, Siri started suggesting that I send a check-in to one of my contacts, a feature I hadn't initiated. This first happened when I left my home to go to the store, and I dismissed it, thinking it was a one-time thing. However, the next day, I received the same suggestion for the same contact. I decided to explore this feature, only to find it quite invasive and creepy, especially since it keeps popping up whenever I leave my home or workplace.

Despite my attempts to stop it, such as disabling Siri's rights to send me suggestions and preventing it from learning from the Messages app, the persistent check-in suggestion remains. It's starting to unnerve me, and I'm on the verge of removing Siri altogether if I can't find a solution to make it stop.


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iPhone 6, iOS 10

Posted on Jan 22, 2024 8:21 AM

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Posted on Aug 14, 2024 12:05 PM

Solved:

Like many of the folks who reported this, I have no idea how this was enabled.


The fix though:

  • Go to Settings > Privacy & Security > Safety Check (i'm on iOS 17.5.1)
  • While in the Safety Check screen, select "Manage Sharing & Access"
  • You will notice on the splash screen a selection called "Review People" which includes location sharing.
  • Hit the "Continue" button and you should now see who you are sharing with.
  • Select the contact for which you started receiving the Checkin notifications
  • Select the location service and hit the "Stop Sharing" button.
  • You will see a warning screen of some sort indicating that you will stop location sharing and the person will be notified, blah blah blah.
  • Select 'continue'
  • To confirm you have stopped location sharing/checkins, open Messages and select the contact. You should now see a 'quiet' notice stating "Check In Ended".


Again, I don't know how this was enabled as I 'thought' I stopped sharing my location with this contact a long time ago. Alas, it was reenable at some point. <shrug>


Good luck.

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Aug 14, 2024 12:05 PM in response to Angelicshade

Solved:

Like many of the folks who reported this, I have no idea how this was enabled.


The fix though:

  • Go to Settings > Privacy & Security > Safety Check (i'm on iOS 17.5.1)
  • While in the Safety Check screen, select "Manage Sharing & Access"
  • You will notice on the splash screen a selection called "Review People" which includes location sharing.
  • Hit the "Continue" button and you should now see who you are sharing with.
  • Select the contact for which you started receiving the Checkin notifications
  • Select the location service and hit the "Stop Sharing" button.
  • You will see a warning screen of some sort indicating that you will stop location sharing and the person will be notified, blah blah blah.
  • Select 'continue'
  • To confirm you have stopped location sharing/checkins, open Messages and select the contact. You should now see a 'quiet' notice stating "Check In Ended".


Again, I don't know how this was enabled as I 'thought' I stopped sharing my location with this contact a long time ago. Alas, it was reenable at some point. <shrug>


Good luck.

Jun 28, 2024 5:22 PM in response to HigleyHero

I think this may be the key. I had turned off Siri suggestions in Siri and for the Messages app, but had not turned off suggestions in the “Find My” app:


Settings > Siri & Search > Find My > disable Suggestions


For good measure, I also turned off location sharing in Find My:

Settings > Apple ID > Find My > disable Share My Location


I’d prefer to share location with one person in my Apple family (not the person who I’ve been repeatedly browbeaten into checking in with), but will sacrifice that to see if I can break this curse.

Oct 18, 2024 8:35 AM in response to Angelicshade

I think I may have figured out how to turn this off. I’m going to have to see if it suggests it again but I searched in my settings for Siri and under the bottom option called “Siri & search” it has an option “show contact suggestions” I turned this off. Maybe this will fix this creepy feature popups. Mine just started doing this last week and it has happened twice. I also turned off the “learn from this app” option because it says it allows Siri to learn how to use your cintacts.

Aug 15, 2024 4:10 AM in response to Unnecessarilyconfusing

Unnecessarilyconfusing wrote:

• Solved:
Like many of the folks who reported this, I have no idea how this was enabled.

The fix though:
Go to Settings > Privacy & Security > Safety Check (i'm on iOS 17.5.1)
• While in the Safety Check screen, select "Manage Sharing & Access"
• You will notice on the splash screen a selection called "Review People" which includes location sharing.
• Hit the "Continue" button and you should now see who you are sharing with.
• Select the contact for which you started receiving the Checkin notifications
• Select the location service and hit the "Stop Sharing" button.
• You will see a warning screen of some sort indicating that you will stop location sharing and the person will be notified, blah blah blah.
• Select 'continue'
• To confirm you have stopped location sharing/checkins, open Messages and select the contact. You should now see a 'quiet' notice stating "Check In Ended".

Again, I don't know how this was enabled as I 'thought' I stopped sharing my location with this contact a long time ago. Alas, it was reenable at some point. <shrug>

Good luck.


Unfortunately, I am not sharing location with any of my contacts and this is still an issue for me.

Jun 26, 2024 3:34 PM in response to Angelicshade

I experienced this for the first time today as I was leaving my office, prompting a text message to an arms-length contact with a check in and my home ETA.


I found this thread first, then after a bit more digging, found this:

Siri Suggestions on iPhone - Apple Support (CA)


Screenshot below of the (now disabled) settings. I did leave my search features on because I will sometimes ask Siri to find information that I know is buried in my texts somewhere.


Hopefully this does the trick. I guess time will tell…


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