How to turn off Siri suggesting Check In on iPhone

About 2-3 weeks ago, out of the blue, Siri started suggesting that I send a check-in to one of my contacts, a feature I hadn't initiated. This first happened when I left my home to go to the store, and I dismissed it, thinking it was a one-time thing. However, the next day, I received the same suggestion for the same contact. I decided to explore this feature, only to find it quite invasive and creepy, especially since it keeps popping up whenever I leave my home or workplace.

Despite my attempts to stop it, such as disabling Siri's rights to send me suggestions and preventing it from learning from the Messages app, the persistent check-in suggestion remains. It's starting to unnerve me, and I'm on the verge of removing Siri altogether if I can't find a solution to make it stop.


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iPhone 6, iOS 10

Posted on Jan 22, 2024 8:21 AM

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Posted on Aug 14, 2024 12:05 PM

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Like many of the folks who reported this, I have no idea how this was enabled.


The fix though:

  • Go to Settings > Privacy & Security > Safety Check (i'm on iOS 17.5.1)
  • While in the Safety Check screen, select "Manage Sharing & Access"
  • You will notice on the splash screen a selection called "Review People" which includes location sharing.
  • Hit the "Continue" button and you should now see who you are sharing with.
  • Select the contact for which you started receiving the Checkin notifications
  • Select the location service and hit the "Stop Sharing" button.
  • You will see a warning screen of some sort indicating that you will stop location sharing and the person will be notified, blah blah blah.
  • Select 'continue'
  • To confirm you have stopped location sharing/checkins, open Messages and select the contact. You should now see a 'quiet' notice stating "Check In Ended".


Again, I don't know how this was enabled as I 'thought' I stopped sharing my location with this contact a long time ago. Alas, it was reenable at some point. <shrug>


Good luck.

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Aug 9, 2024 8:07 PM in response to Angelicshade

I turned my phone off and on a few days ago and had to re-sign in to several things. Today, (August 9, 2024) I got a check in request for a friend. What on earth!!! Why would I want to check in with a friend?!? I never requested this, nor did she … but I thought she did. Then I got a notification reminder that Siri would let her know when I reached my destination. … then Siri automatically sent her a check-in notification when I reached my destination.


I did not ask for this nor do I want it. Now I have to figure out what the heck it is and why it’s happening! UGH

Sep 5, 2024 1:54 AM in response to IdrisSeabright

What about Settings > Siri & Search > Show Suggestions ?

Or is that only for when you type in a search box?

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To be fair, aren't the "Community Specialists" that occasionally post replies Apple employees?

(Not that they are supposed to deal with issues like this.)

Sep 5, 2024 7:15 AM in response to John Rose6

John Rose6 wrote:

To be fair, aren't the "Community Specialists" that occasionally post replies Apple employees?
(Not that they are supposed to deal with issues like this.)

Yes, there used to be. However, that program was discontinued about a year ago (I think). They were able to answer questions in specific sub-forums, iPhone being one of them, that had gone unanswered for about 12-24 hours and could be answered largely by a referral to a support article. The program had mixed success. I don't know why it was ended. They might have dealt with this sort of question if no one else had. But they didn't tend to hang around in threads.

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