installed iOS 17.3 and now Facetime and Messages won't let me connect.
My guess is the new system (via 17.3) is not using the right SMS provider.
A very simillar thing happened with Google a few months ago. My (major cell phone company) provider did some digging and had to collaborate with Google to use the correct SMS routing (they were sending everything to a competitor provider instead of using the regional SMS). It was a weird, overnight change, always worked until it didn't. That got fixed.
This feels much the same.
I can log into my Apple ID, change password, everything, including iCloud is working.
I signed out a few times and logged back in after restarts, etc. (usual trouble shooting fix)
Facetime and iMessage won't connect, they just error out every time I try turning them back on.
Everything was working flawlessly until I installed 17.3 about 12 hours ago.
I'm waiting on a call from Apple, but I'd be thrilled if someone knew the fix????
iPhone 12 mini, iOS 17