How to retrieve Apple ID and iPhone password
I don’t know passcode to change password
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iPhone XR, iOS 17
Perhaps some factors outlined in this Apple support document may
be of some help to resolve this issue; these are steps, toward same.
If you forgot your Apple ID password - Apple Support
//support.apple.com/en-us/HT201487
Additional factors are referred to with blue text links, and at some
point, one may seek help more directly from Apple, through them.